Tips For A Better Workday

Well, it’s Monday again! Here are a few tips for a better work day to help you stay focused this dreadful Monday morning.

Tip #1 – Dress comfortably (if possible) Worrying about what you are wearing can be distracting. Ladies, opt for a loose-fitted outfit paired with some cute slip ons or if it is not too hot, a pair of comfy boots. Men, anything a little loose-fitted should do 🙂

Tip #2 – Play Some Tunes Go to pandora.com and play some G-rated old school music. This will lighten your mood and won’t bother anyone.

Tip #3 – Make a To-Do List Your day is sure to move along much faster if you jot down a list of tasks and follow it. Try to think of a few important things you can tackle today that will make your boss proud!

Tip #4 – Go Large on Your Favorite Drink Yes! Get a nice size of your favorite coffee or tea and bask in its deliciousness with no care in the world as you go about your day.

Tip #5 – Organize Take a few minutes to clear your desk or office of any clutter. Also, clean the desktop to your computer. This will give you a refreshing feeling that will allow you to work in a less stress-free environment….for the most part 😉 I know that when my desk is covered in bright neon post-its I just want to run in the opposite direction!

Do you have tips to a better workday? Share them with us! I hope that you have a great week everyone!

Overcome Your Insecurities When It Comes To Love

I have never been good at love. Until recently, I had only given one guy all of me. He was my first and my only but, he broke my heart. He was so cruel but so loveable and unknowlingy I realized it one day. I walked away yet I felt as though I could not live without him. It changed my views on dating, sex, love. I doubted anyone who ever cared about me but I just couldn’t help but want to be loved again. I grew so tired of pushing everyone away so I did something about it by changing what I felt inside. I would like to share with you my positive thoughts that helped me overcome my insecurities when it came to love.

Remember you ARE good enough, you DESERVE to be and feel loved and you ARE capable of loving back. You have been hurt and that makes you the victim, so stop treating yourself like the suspect. You are punishing yourself with hurt and sadness and you know that this is not what you want.

I know what you might be thinking, “I do not want to be hurt again.” But, as I mentioned in one of my earlier posts, “You cannot change the way people feel, think or do unless you have obtained a certain power over them…” Love makes you loyal, but what you need to see is that when love is lost so is loyalty, you have the right to walk away and to forget if that love is gone. Do that for your own sake. Hurt is your wound and forgetting is your way of healing.

Do not just let your insecurities eat away at you and deter you from finding love and affection. I did all this myself and I found love. I found happiness with someone who I never doubted from the very beginning. I allowed him to see the truth in me, not the scared and doubtful thoughts that kept me hidden. Keep your eyes OPEN for that. Those are the people who can show you what true love and friendship is all about. It will not change over night, it takes time to learn to love again but in the end you will find happiness if you allow yourself to accept what others have done to make you build up this wall. Tear it down, tear it all down.

Share your story or thoughts with me in the comment section so that those who struggle with this issue can find the inspiration to change.

Written by: Rebecca M. Moreno

Why Do Humans Do The Things We Do?

I have put much thought into this question since I decided I wanted a better life. I, just like you, have been betrayed, hurt, belittled by others and I always wondered, WHY? I cannot say that I was never to blame for my problems with others but I wanted to find a way to put it all behind me and start fresh.

One day, I turned the television on and began watching the news. It was a Nancy Grace type of news show and they were discussing a high-profile murder case. Anyway, you know how it goes…a panel of people argue back and forth and analyze the defendant. As they picked apart the character and actions of this person my mind began to wonder and the answer to my question seemed simple all of a sudden. To understand, you have to go back in time. Forget where you are for just a second, and forget about the way life is for you at this moment.

Think back to the days when man-kind roamed the earth and fought for survival. We have come such a long way since then, would you agree?….duh. But one thing remains the same, and that is our natural way of being. You can train a Lion, but no matter what, there is no guarantee that it will not attack you. Same thing with humans, you give them laws to abide by, they break them, you are nice to someone, they hurt you….and so on and so forth. We have evolved into a world of materialistic fantasies and superficial lifestyles…which is ok! But remember, we all deal with our lives and circumstances differently. You cannot change the way people feel, think or do unless you have obtained a certain power over them…you can only accept it and move on because life is no longer about hunting and survival. It is too complex and filled with garbage that we were never meant to be subjected to…and that is the answer.

I know this may all seem vague in a sense but tell me what you think, I will never judge you. I am looking for answers about life and I am taking the oppurtunity to think outside of the box, that is all. Inspire me with your input and the way you see it.

Regular Show Limited Edition Wrist Watch

Awesome Regular Show limited edition watch!!!

I am so crazy about the incredible watches that Vannen carries. You just have to click the pic above to see what I mean. Anyway, the Regular Show watch is Limited Edition and such a great gift for any Cartoon Network fanatic…like myself…It is only $75.00, water resistant, and it has randomly inserted packaging that comes signed and sketched on by Regualr Show creator, J.G. Quintel. Get ’em while they are HOT people. So would if I could.

 

 

Samsung S4 Event Sexist?

Samsung S4 Event Sexist?

CNN’s Adrian Covert explains why the event seemed sexist and you can decide for yourself by watching the video clip. I find it a little bit ridiculous that they opted to make woman seem technologically illiterate, but that is just my opinion. What do you think about the Samsung Galaxy S IV?

The Freedom We Have And What It Means For You!

I am a creative writer. I live by the meaning and definition of words taught to me by people who were given the right to by the United States of America. I understand my rights and the most important one to me, I believe, is the first amendment. It is important that you understand why. 

We all have rights but there are stipulations. They can be taken away at any time should you break laws or something more. I choose to abide by the laws in this country and exercise my given right to the freedom of speech and thoughts. I see my potential on this earth, I see your potential on this earth. I choose to believe that happiness can be the cure to sadness.

I choose to believe in something greater than the United States of America. It is nothing but a mass of land and there is much more to explore in this big world. We utilize our power of freedom to hate people, love people, choose our line of work, buy a car, kill, steal, choose a religion, and so much more. Only a handful of leaders have stepped out of the box to utilize their power to create, invent, and enforce. This is our right! If you are religious than you are living by the definition of freedom. 

You choose to believe in the idea that there is something greater, you believe in others, you believe in the beliefs of others. I do to, but in my own ways. I find inspiration in human beings who utilize their power of freedom to invent, like Benjamin Franklin. Or Bob Marley, a soul searching for the meaning of life and something greater. Albert Einstein. Martin Luther King Jr., Ghandi. I live by the meaning and definition of a Philanthropist. I seek to promote the welfare of others because I believe that happiness is greater than any riches in this world and I want people to know they have choices. 

We all understand our fate. It is is to die. Accept your fate, live in the moment, protect yourself and your people from those who bring harm. Realize that we put our trust in the belief of others. Create things, ask questions, increase your knowledge, change your beliefs, gain new ones….all until you are content with yourself. Write your happiness, your future. It is not a risk. It is a right!!! Teach your children the laws of America, teach them that they have the ability to find the good in this country and that they can be happy. 

Written by: Rebecca M. Moreno

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